What Do Women Want In A Relationship

What Do Women Want in a Relationship

1.      When she goes quiet, that’s not peace; it’s already over.  You see, if she is still bringing up things that bother her, it means she cares enough to fight for the relationship that she thinks is worth saving. But a woman’s detachment begins when she gets tired of repeating herself and nothing is changing. 

2.      She notices absolutely everything.  The tone, the timing, the effort (or lack of it).  A woman will choose which battles are worth her energy and which ones are not.

3.      She doesn’t always want you to ‘fix it’.  She just wants you to ‘get it’.  She wants to be listened to.  Most of the time she will already know the solutions to her problems and just wants someone to understand how she feels and where she's coming from.

4.      She wants emotional maturity, not emotional dumping.  A man who opens up, not who unloads.  Being vulnerable doesn’t mean bleeding all over her, it means letting her see the wound that you are already healing.  She’s not your mother – stop treating her like one. She isn’t there to heal it all for you.

5.      When she feels emotionally safe around you, she will become everything you have ever wanted – and more.  Being emotionally safe allows her to relax into her feminine energy, and that is when you get the best version of her and when she can bring out the best version of you.

6.      Women’s period cycle dictates a lot – our emotions, mood, how much sh*t we are prepared to take.  You get one week of pain, one week of an emotional rollercoaster and 2 weeks of heaven.  If you think you men have it bad, imagine how us women feel! Be patient, reassure her and let her know you have her back.

7.      Most modern women are not looking for a man to take care of her.  She already knows how to pay her bills and handle her sh*t…. she does not need saving.  What she needs is a man she doesn’t need to mother.  A man who can lead and regulate himself, knows what he wants and where he is going and backs up these words with consistent actions.  What she wants is an equal life partner, not another responsibility.  A man who plans the dates, picks her up and takes her out.  Someone who can shoulder some of the responsibility and lead a relationship so she can relax and enjoy herself.

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